A few Thoughts

My brother and his girlfriend are on the rocks now.

Its just that, I never wondered why.

Girls.
Why do guys spend so much money on girls?
Why not vice-versa?

Why do guys insist on paying the bill?
Why not vice-versa?

Why do girls insist on talking on the phone every night?
Why not vice-versa?

Why do girls attribute all moodiness to mood-swings?
Why not vice-versa?

The thing is, I never found what's so appealing about girls that guys would sacrifice so much of their time, money and even friends to cater to a single woman.

I have always believed in the equality of men and women.
Yup. If a girl wants the same benefits as a guy, expected to be treated like a guy in return.

Genetically, women are NOT built to handle alot of things that guys go through.

Long working hours, high social stress, straineous activity (did i spell that correctly?).

Sure, they can do it. And many have proved that they can. But what is the end result?

Woman suffer from atheritist and bone decalcification at 40 years old
Woman suffer from miscarridges and infertility
Woman suffer from an unhappy family and distranged family life, thus resulting in emotional breakdowns.

I'm not saying that women should not act like a man.
But nobody is an independent creature.


ok. I'm crapping. (I was just irritated that a bung was lecturing me on woman's rights. - Like I care. I treat girls just fine, in my opinion.)

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Yaay. I just bought Dominic's birthday present a few days ago.

His birthday is on 1st December.

But I've gotta start on it, or I'll never ever be able to complete it in time.
(btw. Its 4x harder then the one that I did for Michelle about 9 months ago)


sigh. Within this time where my life is with Dominic, I have already seen more then ten AJ couples and 2 straight couples get together and broken up.

Some said that the other did not have time for them
Some said that they only wanted fun
Some said that they could not see any future in the relationship.

I wonder. WHY start a relationship if you cannot see any future in it?

So I snap at them at tell them, "Its not a relationship, its a FLING."

Difference between a FLING and a RELATIONSHIP.

. visibly one-sided (one side gives in more to the other)
. irresponsibility (inability to commit to one person)
. self-centered (always think of own self first)

I believe that every relationship has its roots in a fling.
whether by infatuation or materialism.

It is when both parties realize that they have became a part of each other, when they go through the hurts together - and survive,

will they be qualified to be called a couple.


other then that, please call that "other-half" - a date.